【题文】Communication is an important part of any relationship. Many of us are
to share our experiences or emotions with our friends. But when it's our turn to lend a(n)
,we soon become bored or are short of idea on how to
_ and offer advice.
That's because of what researchers call "listener burnout(倦怠)”.A friend might talk to us
,often complaining about the same
problems. When we offer quick advice to
the situation, we may be unconsciously trying to
0urselves from bumout. However, good listeners
their natural tendency to solve the other's problems hurriedly and to keep the conversation brief.
To be a good
__ ,you need to use "active listening". It starts with the real
_ to help others and think through their feelings. Don't
things. You can start by putting your phone__
and sitting close to your friend. Let your facial expressions
一what he or she is saying.__
you are able to fully understand,acknowledge the other person's
by reflecting them back:"That must be really hard for you.”Use
words or even sounds such as“yes”, "right”,and"hmm"”to
the other person to continue.
0f course,a.
can be extremely hard if the other person is too critical.But don't get defensive. Effective listeners don't
negative criticism.Instead,they listen and understand what the person ls trying to convey
responding.
【小题1】 | A.afraid | B.hesitant | C.shy | D.eager |
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【小题2】 | A.shoulder | B.hand | C.ear | D.eye |
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【小题3】 | A.respond | B.explain | C.argue | D.quit |
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【小题4】 | A.aimlessly | B.endlessly | C.deliberately | D.cautiously |
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【小题5】 | A.difficult | B.old | C.acute | D.sensitive |
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【小题6】 | A.fix | B.discuss | C.create | D.describe |
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【小题7】 | A.forgive | B.protect | C.discourage | D.prevent |
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【小题8】 | A.follow | B.display | C.form | D.overcome |
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【小题9】 | A.reader | B.partner | C.listener | D.speaker |
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【小题10】 | A.demand | B.habit | C.desire | D.ability |
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【小题11】 | A.skip | B.rush | C.overlook | D.postpone |
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【小题13】 | A.record | B.restrict | C.reflect | D.replace |
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【小题14】 | A.Whether | B.Since | C.While | D.If |
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【小题15】 | A.suggestions | B.purposes | C.responses | D.feelings |
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【小题16】 | A.big | B.tough | C.strong | D.shone |
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【小题17】 | A.force | B.remind | C.encourage | D.convince |
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【小题18】 | A.conversation | B.suggestion | C.problem | D.lecture |
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【小题19】 | A.give up | B.make up | C.leave out | D.block out |
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【小题20】 | A.after | B.before | C.while | D.once |
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